{"id":2519,"date":"2011-08-29T16:26:06","date_gmt":"2011-08-29T16:26:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/biblicalcounselinginsights.com\/?page_id=2279"},"modified":"2018-01-03T20:10:45","modified_gmt":"2018-01-04T03:10:45","slug":"step-1-knowing-god","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/biblicalcounselinginsights.com\/attitudes-and-behaviors\/step-1-knowing-god\/","title":{"rendered":"Step 1: Knowing God"},"content":{"rendered":"

If we want to stop committing a habitual sin, we should first look at what we are doing and then develop strategies for changing our behavior, right? Wrong. The first step should be to start at the other end\u2014not with ourselves but with God. That is why step one in breaking a sinful habit is to adopt a correct view<\/em> of God. The more fully we understand the nature of God, the better we will understand how we should live in this world.<\/p>\n

In general, we make our decisions on a rational basis. We try to understand the facts and then make a reasonable choice based on what we know (or what we think we know) as well as on what we feel. This is true in all areas of life. Our convictions<\/em> influence our behavior.<\/em> For this reason, it is important that we have the right convictions in the first place. And since our convictions about God are above our convictions in all other categories, it is supremely important that we have the right convictions about Him.<\/p>\n

Everything about our lives\u2014our attitudes, motives, desires, actions, and even our words\u2014may be influenced, at least indirectly, by our view of God. An improving view of God, then, means we may be energized to recognize our sin and to deal with it in a godly way.<\/p>\n

God\u2019s Self-Portrait<\/h2>\n

As we begin our attempts to know God better, we should admit one fact: God is beyond our ability to fully comprehend Him. \u201c\u2018My thoughts are completely different from yours,\u2019 says the Lord. \u2018And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine\u2019\u201d (Isaiah 55:8). In the end, God remains a marvelous mystery.<\/p>\n

Yet at the same time this God is a God who wants to be known. He reveals to us everything about Himself that we really need to know. And He bids us to come looking for Him. An honest search for Him is one that He readily rewards with a disclosure of Himself. He promises, \u201cIf you look for me in earnest, you will find me when you seek me\u201d (Jeremiah 29:13).<\/p>\n

The apostle Paul, in establishing the guilt of sinful people who did not have the advantages of being a part of the Jewish community, explained that God has placed clues about Himself both inside each person and all around us.<\/p>\n

God shows his anger from heaven against all sinful, wicked people who push the truth away from themselves. For the truth about God is known to them instinctively. God has put this knowledge in their hearts. From the time the world was created, people have seen the earth and sky and all that God made. They can clearly see his invisible qualities\u2014his eternal power and divine nature. So they have no excuse whatsoever for not knowing God. (Romans 1:18-20)<\/p>\n

Instinctive knowledge of God placed in our hearts: that is the witness of our conscience. God\u2019s invisible qualities displayed in the earth and sky and all He has made: that is the witness of nature.<\/p>\n

But conscience and nature can only tell us so much about God. They reveal generalities and not specifics. To live life in a fully God-pleasing manner, we need more detailed information about who God is and what He wants of us.<\/p>\n

The Bible is our most comprehensive guide to the nature of God. It was \u201cinspired by God\u201d (2 Timothy 3:16), and so it preserves God\u2019s own witness to who He is. It is His self-portrait. Above any other source, then, we need to find out what God says about Himself in the Bible. If we will take the time to study what Scripture says, we can arrive at a picture of God that certainly is not complete but that is more than adequate for our needs.<\/p>\n

Moreover, we can trust that the God who appears in the pages of Scripture is the same God we are seeking to know better today. \u201cI am the Lord, and I do not change,\u201d He testifies (Malachi 3:6). What He says specifically about Himself in Scripture, and what He demonstrates about Himself through His actions recorded in Bible stories, reveals the real God.<\/p>\n

We need to be willing to open up our minds to the biblical picture of God. If we ask the Holy Spirit to reveal truth to us from the Bible, He will do so. And as we study Scripture, its picture of God will crowd out our old, mistaken view of God and establish a truer picture in its place.<\/p>\n

Click here to continue reading abridged chapter 3: \u00a0STEP 1: \u00a0KNOWING GOD<\/a><\/p>\n

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The Purification Process<\/h2>\n

The ways in which people have gone wrong in their opinions about their Creator are almost as numerous as the human race itself. The diversity of religious beliefs in the world bears witness to how we can be misled about God.<\/p>\n

First of all, of course, it is important to believe that God exists. \u201cAnyone who wants to come to Him must believe that there is a God\u201d (Hebrews 11:6). Certainly atheism has been responsible for some of the most dreadful abuses in history, as people have gone astray through the rejection of God. The psalmist was right:<\/p>\n

Only fools say in their hearts,<\/p>\n

\u201cThere is no God.\u201d (Psalm 14:1)<\/p>\n

But of course, most people in our land do believe in God. In fact, only 8 percent of Americans describe themselves as atheists or agnostics.\u00b9 Naturally, though, this does not mean that 92 percent of us have an accurate or adequate view of who God is. Misunderstanding about God\u2019s nature, even when it comes to the basics, is widespread, despite the prevalent belief in the existence of God.<\/p>\n

One key reason why so many misunderstand God today is the current do-it-yourself approach to religion. At one time, Christianity was the starting point for the theology of most Americans (whether or not they actually had a saving faith in Christ). Today, though, many put together pieces of Christianity, New Age spirituality, and whatever else appeals to them, then endorse the resulting hodgepodge as their theological doctrine. Consequently, while they may be enthusiastic about \u201cGod,\u201d the God they have in mind bears little resemblance to the God of the Bible.<\/p>\n

Having flawed convictions about God is not necessarily a sin in itself\u2014your education in this area may have been at fault. But do not let yourself become comfortable with unexamined convictions. Get to know God better in His self-portrait, the Bible, and start erasing those parts of your image of Him that do not fit what He says about Himself. Then fill in the picture with true ideas about God\u2019s nature. You will benefit from knowing more about both who God is and how He acts toward you.<\/p>\n

Who God Is<\/h2>\n

Some years ago I (Bill) wrote a book about the attributes of God, called God: Discover His Character.<\/em>\u00b2 I got the idea for the book as a result of being interviewed by Dr. James Montgomery Boice on the Bible Hour<\/em> radio program. One of the first questions Dr. Boice asked was \u201cWhat is the most important truth to teach any follower of Christ?\u201d<\/p>\n

No one had ever asked that question of me before, so for a moment I was speechless. Finally I answered, \u201cThe attributes of God.\u201d Later I thought about my answer (prompted, I believe, by the Holy Spirit) and realized that it really was true. Human problems are commonly due, at least in part, to a faulty or inadequate understanding about God.<\/p>\n

This is why I would urge you to learn more about the attributes of God. These attributes are primary qualities or characteristics belonging to God.<\/p>\n

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  1. God is all powerful.<\/em> \u201cLord, there is no one like You! For You are great, and Your name is full of power\u201d (Jeremiah 10:6).<\/li>\n
  2. God is ever present.<\/em> \u201cI can never escape from Your Spirit! I can never get away from Your presence!\u201d (Psalm 139:7).<\/li>\n
  3. God is all knowing.<\/em> \u201cHow great is our Lord! His understanding is beyond comprehension!\u201d (Psalm 147:5).<\/li>\n
  4. God is sovereign.<\/em> \u201cEverything in the heavens and on earth is Yours, O Lord, and this is Your kingdom\u201d (1 Chronicles 29:11).<\/li>\n
  5. God is holy.<\/em> \u201cHoly, holy, holy is the Lord Almighty! The whole earth is filled with His glory!\u201d (Isaiah 6:3).<\/li>\n
  6. God is truthful.<\/em> \u201cIt is impossible for God to lie\u201d (Hebrews 6:18).<\/li>\n
  7. God is righteous.<\/em> \u201cEverything He does is just and fair. He is a faithful God who does no wrong; how just and upright He is!\u201d (Deuteronomy 32:4).<\/li>\n
  8. God is just.<\/em> \u201cMighty king, lover of justice, you have established fairness\u201d (Psalm 99:4).<\/li>\n
  9. God is loving<\/em>. \u201cSee how very much our heavenly Father loves us, for He allows us to be called His children, and we really are!\u201d (1 John 3:1).<\/li>\n
  10. God is merciful.<\/em> \u201cGod is so rich in mercy, and He loved us so very much, that even while we were dead because of our sins, He gave us life when He raised Christ from the dead\u201d (Ephesians 2:4-5).<\/li>\n
  11. God is faithful.<\/em> \u201cYour faithfulness extends to every generation, as enduring as the earth you created\u201d (Psalm 119:90).<\/li>\n
  12. God is unchanging.<\/em> \u201cHe never changes or casts shifting shadows\u201d (James 1:17).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    For you as someone who is seeking to overcome a habitual sin, these attributes of God all relate to the issue of trust. Can you trust God to help you with your sin problem? In what ways is He trustworthy? Only when you know God will you be able to trust Him with all your heart.<\/p>\n

    \u00b9Barna Research Group, press release, \u201cAmerican Faith Is Diverse, as Shown among Five Faith-Based Segments,\u201d January 29, 2002, http:\/\/www.barna.org\/, accessed September 2003. An atheist is one who believes there is no God. An agnostic is one who is undecided about the existence of God.<\/h6>\n
    \u00b2Bill Bright, God: Discover His Character<\/em> (Orlando, FL: New Life, 1999). See also the related website at http:\/\/www.discovergod.org.<\/h6>\n

    Click here to continue reading abridged chapter 3: \u00a0STEP 1: \u00a0KNOWING GOD<\/a><\/p>\n

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    How God Acts Toward Us<\/h2>\n

    Learning about the nature and attributes of God, as revealed by the Bible, is far from being a mere academic exercise. We discover in the process a God who cares about us, who is intimately involved in our lives, and who wants to help us heal from our sin problems.<\/p>\n

    Let\u2019s consider the twelve attributes of God listed above in terms of how they relate to our problems with habitual sin. Each attribute should be an encouragement to us.<\/p>\n

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    1. Because God is all powerful, He is stronger than the hold that sin has over us.<\/li>\n
    2. Because God is ever present, He is always with us in our struggles against temptation.<\/li>\n
    3. Because God all knowing, we can go to Him with all our questions and concerns about becoming holy.<\/li>\n
    4. Because God is sovereign, we can submit to His will for our ethical actions.<\/li>\n
    5. Because God is holy, He offers the model of morality we strive to copy.<\/li>\n
    6. Because God is truthful, we can believe what He says about sin and holiness and live accordingly.<\/li>\n
    7. Because God is righteous, He provides the standards we seek to live up to.<\/li>\n
    8. Because God is just, He always treat us fairly, even when we disappoint Him.<\/li>\n
    9. Because God is loving, He is unconditionally committed to our spiritual well-being.<\/li>\n
    10. Because God is merciful, He forgives us of our sins when we sincerely confess them.<\/li>\n
    11. Because God is faithful, we can trust Him to always keep His promises to help and to forgive.<\/li>\n
    12. Because God is unchanging, His commitment to our spiritual health is fixed and dependable.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      What a God we serve! His every quality is suited to drawing us nearer to Him and to helping us become the kind of people He wants us to be.<\/p>\n

      Furthermore, the fact that God is a Trinity\u2014Father, Son, and Holy Spirit together\u2014teaches us that God values fellowship. God enjoys fellowship among the three Persons that make up the unity of the Godhead, and He enjoys fellowship with us, His most beloved creatures. And so the three divine Persons work together to solve our sin problem: The Father established the standards of justice. The Son sacrificed Himself to earn our forgiveness. And the Spirit comes alongside us to aid us in our attempts at living holy lives.<\/p>\n

      Isn\u2019t this a God you want to know better? We promise that as you get to know Him more fully, He will begin to change your thoughts and feelings in ways that will make you more ready to part with your habitual sin and to embrace holiness.<\/p>\n

      How good it is to know God as He really is! A revolution in our view of God can start a revolution in our behavior, but adopting a correct view of God is only the beginning. We move from there to evaluating other ideas and feelings that may underlie our sinful behavior.<\/p>\n

      Click here to read abridged chapter 4: \u00a0STEP 2: \u00a0EMBRACING TRUTH<\/a><\/p>\n

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